Showing posts with label refuge. Show all posts
Showing posts with label refuge. Show all posts

Friday, May 22, 2015

$37 BILLION DOLLAR BAND AID


$37 BILLION DOLLAR BANDAID




Domestic violence cost more than $37 Billion dollars a year in law enforcement involvement, legal work, medical and mental health treatment and loss of productivity of companies.  All these billions spent yet the results are showing domestic violence is a epidemic problem.  In the report from
RELATIONSHIPS IN AMERICA REPORT, They state " we believe that the reports of domestic violence have indeed increased."


When we hear 4,000 women die each year due to domestic violence, 1-3 female homicide victims are murdered by their current or former partners every year or 1-3 women will experience domestic violence, 75% of male abusers were abused as children, we need to realize the billions spent are not working or fixing the issue.  It is just putting a very expensive band aid on the issue!  Our domestic abuse centers have their budgets cut to the bone.  And start up money to open transitional or long term care for domestic abuse is almost nonexistent.  We need places like Annabelle's Haven that will help the women to heal in a safe secure environment.  The women will be given the tools required to thrive in the world including education, counseling, job readiness, life skills, and parenting skills so they can not only survive domestic abuse they can thrive.  As these women and children heal they can be the change that will help end the cycle of domestic violence.


Band aids are good but healing and empowering the women and children affected by domestic abuse is so needed.

Thursday, May 21, 2015

Powerful words

                                                            Mas é preciso reconhecer que isso reflete outro problema, implícito ...




                                                                Powerful Words


Have you ever read something and thought " That is exactly how I feel too" ?  When I read this statement from His Holiness the Dalai Lama, I thought  " Dalai Lama has put into beautiful words how I wish my life to be."




May I become at all times both now and forever
A protector for those without protection
A guide for those who have lost their way
A ship for those with ocean to cross
A sanctuary for those in danger
A lamp for those without light
A place of refuge for those who lack shelter
And a servant to all in need.




This is the reason I left my home in Florida of 60 years and moved to North Carolina away from family and friends. This is reason for opening  Annabelle's Haven for domestic abused women and children.  Thank you Dalai Lama for putting into words my deepest feelings.